Give the Love back to YOU!

Source: Keep Calm-O-Matic

Valentine’s Day is [insert your own words here] if you are single. Even though it is one day, it is one that that makes you feel [insert your own words here], even though on other days you feel okay about being in the world of Singledom. Well no more I say, I know where you are at and I have expressed my views before in Forced Statement of Love?

Do not succumb to the pressure of the day, you will just end up moody and feeling sorry for yourself. Be happy for those who have found love and use the day to perhaps treat yourself by giving love back to yourself. How often do we do that?

Change the record and the rules. Yes Valentine’s Day is about celebrating your love for another but it can also be about celebrating the fact that you love yourself too, an acknowledgement that needs to be reinforced by yourself and not validated by another. Whilst I acknowledge two halves make a whole, in the context of having, building and maintaining healthy relationships I believe two whole people are better.

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Being single is a great time to reflect and work on yourself. If there is something missing fill it yourself, otherwise you will always rely on someone else to fill the void and make you happy. So today be kind to yourself, do something that you enjoy and just relax. You get back what you put in, so start putting the love back into yourself and wifey or hubby will come when they too have done their internal work.

Have a lovely day today, and tomorrow and the next day.

Lots of Love

Lisa x

© Lisa Bent 2013